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Are You a Perfectionist?

I was coaching an employee, who, by his own admission, is a perfectionist. He is rarely satisfied when he completes a project or turns in a report or gives a group presentation at work. And he is okay with that—with never being satisfied. (He says never being satisfied doesn’t bother him, but I don’t buy […]


Making Peace With Your “Inner Perfectionist”

If you want to do better work, feel better about yourself, perform at higher levels and surprise yourself by how brilliant you are, consider making peace with your “Inner Perfectionist”. After all, do you really need to demand so much from yourself so often? Of course, you don’t really have an “Inner Perfectionist” living inside […]


Why You Don’t Deserve A Raise…Yet

Perhaps you’ve bought into the myth that if you work really hard, work well with others, put in a few extra hours, do above average work, or get another degree, you’ll have earned a raise. Don’t be too hard on yourself—millions believe the same story. In order to earn a raise, you might or might not have to do all the above. I say “might not” because plenty of people get raises without working extra hours, getting along well with others, or doing stellar work. Huh? How is that possible, you might ask?